I'm sure that everyone reading this blog has encountered at least one perpetually angry, miserable woman in their life. Their negative energy brings down everyone around them. It's also predominately directed at men. So, let's begin to explore why some women are incapable of finding happiness or male companionship.
First, a disclaimer. This is not a female-bashing blog. The men here at The Project love women. Especially sexy and attractive ones. The female body is the most beautiful thing that God ever created (shout-out to Adam for sparing a rib to make this all possible). This is an anti-bullying site, and bullying will not be tolerated. Not at all. This blog is meant to be a cursory overview into why a small percentage of the female population are actually man-hating bullies themselves.
It all starts and ends with a poor father figure. In many cases, it's a completely absent father (either emotionally and/or physically). Without a strong paternal figure in their lives, women fail to develop a cognitive schema for how to trust and feel protected by men. This results in feelings of abandonment and low self-esteem. However, because dad wasn't around to affirm that a girl was actually beautiful and worthy of male attention (even if she actually is quite ugly and he would have been lying), a girl will then develop into a woman who is unable to discern benign and complimentary male attention from creepiness. She'll just assume all men are creeps. Paradoxically, she also routinely seeks validation and affection from men to try to fill the void left by her absent dad, but her implicit hatred, fear, and misunderstanding of male attention leaves her with no capacity to recognize or internalize any compliments. This further exacerbates her low self-esteem, and leads to the development of Resting Bitch Personality (RBP).
Women who suffer from RBP are the worst people you'll ever meet. They hate everything and everyone. Most, if not all, of their conversations consist of them complaining about something. Because they rarely engage in productive conversation, people stop conversing with them. This then further intensifies their RBP because social interaction is what should lead to personal and cognitive growth in life.
RBP in women most typically manifests itself in the form of bullying men. They call men haters. They refer to men as "gay." They claim that all men are "the worst." It's really quite unattractive behavior. It's why most of these women will never know a man's touch. It's not by choice (though they think it is) - no, it's by circumstance. If a woman with RBP happens to be really, really attractive, then perhaps she can find a man with equally low self-esteem to beat up on and bully for the rest of his life. This is male simp behavior, and it may be explored in a future blog. If the woman with RBP is smelly and hairy and not attractive, however, then her RBP will preclude her from ever finding love. She may be doomed to a life of finding love only by living vicariously through reality TV dating shows. SAD!
Is there any hope for a woman who suffers from RBP? Unfortunately, no. Another characteristic of RBP is failure to realize that they suffer from RBP. They never quite understand why they hate men so much. They just do. Without the self-awareness of their own issues, they are never motivated to seek the professional help necessary to un-pack their miserable existence.
Feel free to share your experiences with RBP in the comments section. Together, those of us who have been the targeted victims of RBP bullies can heal through venting with each other.
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